Saturday, November 24, 2012

When Emotions Take Over Emotions...

I am a woman - in all sense of the gender. I think it is my right as a woman to always think I make sense & I also think it is my right to take out emotions, good or bad, to the person I love. What I sometimes, no make that everytime, fail to understand is that it is not necessary for the person at the receiving end to necessarily figure out what exactly triggers these emotions. The good ones are easy & pleasant to handle but the bad ones, oh boy! God save them. There have been numerous books on how men and women are different. Many of them have been read and all that is written is acknowledged with a "So true" exclamation. But the minute you close the book, it is back to reality & you continue doing things the way it always has been done.

It is only natural for a woman to have mood swings during particular days of the month. Men say women have mood swings every day of the month. Not true! For if it was, then a man and a woman would never be able to be together. Trust me when I say, it is ONLY a few days in the month. As a man, you would never understand the turmoils that happens emotionally to a woman during that period (pun intended) and we don't blame you. But what we would appreciate instead is for you men to at least act like you care, show that you understand. Don't ever try to reason out with us... at least not when we warn you not to! As a woman we know what you are going through & we really want to control it but when emotions take over other emotions we just burst. There are no two ways about it, it's just that! Man, I love you but no Vivekananda's speech can influence me during this time.

4 comments:

  1. Men!!!oohh!.What a fascinatin being!....show dem a pack of wolves wer the male dominates and dey say...."Ah!It's natural for men to rule!"... Show dem a bee-hive wer the queen rules and males are left to do all menial work..dey say"Now, are u comparing us to insects??".................


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  2. I love the way you have described them! :-) Quite aptly somebody has said that "Cant live with them, cant live without them"..!

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  3. I believe that if an upset guy coincide with a girl having mood swing very rarely. If they dp very often, then may be the partner selection went wrong or you are over reacting. Always the couples can cope up with each others life, if you can't, you are doing it wrong. Stop it now.

    Going feminist on the topic or counter arguing from an anti-feminist view point never leads to a solution, but to an awkward extinction to human race probably. If I survive, I prefer an aliean invasion or Mayan prediction or scientific accidents !!!

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