Monday, February 15, 2010
The Mystery Of Chemistry...
A lot of times it so happens,that 2 people could share the purest form of platonic relationship yet the chemistry they share would be so strong that people find it difficult to believe the same.Quite strangely,it is very rare for a "couple" to share a strong chemistry as compared to the chemistry that 2 friends could be having.Has happened to me as well.People used to mistake a friend of mine and me to be in a relationship,when in reality we were nothing but really good friends.And i mean that in the actual sense!I used to find it ridiculous that people could actually think otherwise.But when i started to analyse the reason ,i realised that it had nothing to do with my friend or me belonging to the opposite sex nor did it have anything to do with the attraction or bonding in the physical sense either.It had a lot to do with the emotional bonding and understanding that he and i shared.If i had to crack the law of chemistry in a sentence i would say "chemistry is the immense comfort level and great rapport that 2 people share".So for those of you who have failed in creating that "sizzling"chemistry,maybe its time to stop resorting to those "high-end"techniques and start from the basics!
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In India, more than the chemistry, one has to worry about the physics and mechanics of relationships.. Statistics force us to forget about biological needs and concentrate on using catalysts called 'family' to react and equate the right formula to get the desired compounds... sizzlers are for restaurants!
ReplyDeletehaha ma'am!!U have got me splitting here..Well i guess the physics and mechanics of a relationship will fall in place if the chemistry is there!
ReplyDeleteThis piece is something I totally agree with and relate to. If people could change their perspectives on relationships then this is one all should work on. People belonging to two sex can have a perfect chemistry without the physical and mechanical part being affected. The glass can always be half empty and at the same time half full...
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